A puzzle-英语新概念班Ken

A puzzle

     As a young man, I have been puzzled by women and their attitude about love for a long time. Now, I’d like to show you my puzzles.

     When you have a girlfriend, you will lose your free. If you talk with another girl for a long time, she will be angry because she considers that you think the girl is better than she. What an unreasonable logic! When you would like to buy something for her and go shopping with her, she will say no at the fisrt time, and maybe you have to ask her twice or even more times and then she will say "yes". It proves that what she said is not her mind. Am I right? Or they really don’t want to go shopping with you together?

     When you get married, I think women will be a queen in the family, why did I think so? I will show you several examples:

     The first one is as follows: If your company pay the salary throught the bank, you can not get any money directly beacuse the credit card is on your wife possessions. If your company pay the salary with cash, maybe you can save beer money. GOOD LUCK FOR YOU! But why does she do so? Beacuse she wants to get the bargaining power when you argue or betray her. Most of the time, when you argue with her, you must be wrong. The only thing you can do is admit your fault and promise that you will not do the wrong thing anymore. What a pity for the man.

     Another example is about shopping. When your wife or girlfriend make requests that she would like to go shopping with you, I think it is difficult for you to say "no" when you are free. If you make an excuse to refuse her, you will escape this time. Making an excuse over 2 times is very ineffective. If you do this, she will ask you whether you really love her or not. But actually for the men, they are totally different things. I love you but should I do the things I really don’t like to do with you?

     In my opion, in a word, women want to control everything especially their men. If a woman really love you, why doesn’t she give you freedom? Why does she want to control you and make you uncomfortable? Is that a way to show their LOVE?

     Maybe I just talk about a part of women. Are there any women like I referred beside you? Are you puzzled by these questions too or do you enjoy being controlled by a woman you loved? To be or not to be, that is a question.

                                                           From: Ken

                                                           Class: NCE2A